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Flying High

Flying High

On a recent trip to the capital I was again shown how the right attitude makes things a lot more pleasant.

An early morning alarm woke me to the cold snap that the North Island was experiencing. One of the blessed things about my life is that I no longer need to wake via an alarm, so as you can imagine, waking up when it was still dark to sudden loud sound was not the most pleasant thing.

However, it would be fun as I was about to fly off down the island to Wellington and stay with my son for a few days.

All packed and ready to go, my friend Kathy arrived in her puffer jacket and fingerless gloves, and at 6.30, we headed off to the airport. Now I am a bit of a techie geek and love using apps to make life so much easier. Air N.Z.’s app is a winner as I was able to check in the night before and get my boarding pass all sorted right there on my phone. And as I only had a cabin bag, there was no need to check in a bag. (I try to be as minimalist as possible – even in the cold!).

Kathy and I had time for coffee and a catch up before the call came across the intercom announcing boarding open.

Mask on, phone open to the boarding pass, I was on my way.

I found my seat, which I had specifically picked down the back. I don’t know why I prefer the back seats, maybe closer to the toilet???? Not that I get sick, but in case I need to pee, which is very likely after a coffee.

I parked my carry-on luggage into the overhead locker and settled into my seat.

This was when the right attitude kicked in. Looking down the aisle, I happened to see a young family heading towards me. You know the thoughts, ‘oh, I hope they stop soon.’ The mother was carrying a wee baby who was crying, well, more like screaming. Dad and junior were in the lead, and sure enough, they kept coming.

Nooooooo, worst nightmare.

The screaming wasn’t abating, and my thought was, ‘bloody hell, we’re not even up in the air yet when the cabin pressure can play havoc with bubba’s ears’.

Nothing for it as mumma headed towards the empty seat next to me. My maternal feelings came to the fore, and my heart went out to her. I pictured my daughter who had recently brought two babies of similar ages over from Sydney, and the flight home had been, (according to her):

“mildly punishing flight as Jack was awake for 90%”

Mumma tried to calm baby, but bubs was not having a bar of it. With a mask on, it was hard to convey the empathetic look I gave her, but thankfully the flight attendant came to all our rescue within just a few minutes. She offered me a seat at the front of the plane, not only helping me but giving mumma an extra bit of space.

I followed her down the aisle, and there was the empty seat with the bonus of being TWO empty seats. So not only did I have the quiet, but I had space also.

It was a stunning flight! I had a beautiful view from the window seat of the mountains and coastline as we flew down the North Island to Wellington.

And to fill in my time? Why I wrote this blog!

Enjoy some images from the flight.

Click the first image to launch the gallery.

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And let me give Air N.Z. a quick plug. Wonderful flight, lovely crew and easy-as app – thanks

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Going Round in Circles on a Travel Adventure

Going Round in Circles on a Travel Adventure

Make it fun no matter how crazy it seems.

We always talk about life being a journey, well I like to think that it’s more of a travel adventure. And to prove my point, life can send you on a merry dance, and you feel like you’re going round in circles. It’s entirely your choice how you decide to embrace it. Will you get annoyed? Or Will you make the most of it and enjoy the ride?

An example of this happened to me recently.

I was invited to stay with some friends who had hired a home in a picturesque part of the Coromandel. My friend had texted me a few days before with the address; 5 Scenic Place. They had arrived the previous day, and I received a text telling me that it was an incredibly steep driveway and I should be careful.

This particular place was several hours drive, so I planned to leave in plenty of time to call in to see my brother en route. Now I must add here that it has been quite some time since I had driven north of Tauranga and so I was utterly shocked at the number of roadworks that were taking place.

Travel Adventure

It always has been a rotten stretch of road between Tauranga and Katikati, but the signs saying Omokora to Waihi upgrade did not bode well. As I approached the notorious Apata part of number two state highway, I could see this was going to be a very L..O…N….G trip.

A journey that used to take half an hour stretched into an hour, but it didn’t stop there as more roadworks cropped up along the way. Finally, the road was clear. Over the hills I travelled to get to Whangamata, enjoying the glorious sunshine and free driving. Didn’t last! The journey was suddenly stymied by the ignorant, inconsiderate campervan driver who has no idea how to be courteous to the banked up vehicles behind.

Finally!!! I arrived at my brother’s home and had just enough time to say hello, have a hug, a bit of a chat before I was off on the road again, navigating through the endless lines of vintage vehicles which were pouring into Whangamata for the yearly Beach Hop gathering.



But at last. The freedom of the highway.

Putting the address into Google maps, I was a little perplexed to see that Scenic Place became Scenic Drive and wasn’t strictly at the particular wee beach I thought, but the one next to it. Oh well, perhaps there was a bit of confusion – I know I get a bit disorientated as there are several beaches very close to each other, and I can never remember which is which.

So, putting trust in the GPS, I sailed off in the direction the nice Google lady told me to go. However, arriving at number 5, I discovered two things.

  1. The drive was perfectly okay and
  2. The people in the house were not my friends.

After speaking to them, it was evident that I was at the wrong beach.

Hmmm, oh well, it was a beautiful day and not dinner time yet, so I called my friend and left a message and decided that I would head to the beach she has given me and ask someone there where Scenic Place was. Perhaps it was in a new subdivision, and Google hadn’t caught up????

Once there, I spied the cutest restaurant in an old church and decided that, surely, someone in there would know. As there were no patrons, the owner and the chef were out on the deck enjoying a beer. I was in luck. They had all the time needed to try and figure out where the elusive street would be.

These two fine gentlemen had never heard of this particular street. So, I explained the steep driveway adding that my friends were in a four-bedroom AirB&B. This led the restaurant owner to make a couple of phone calls, and finally, everyone agreed that, in all likelihood, the street was Sally Place as it fitted the description.

Please know, Reader, that I was continuing to try and reach my friend.

I logged the new address into Google, and off I went telling these nice restauranteurs that if I had no luck, I’d come back for a beer and wait till my friend got in touch with me.

The driveways sure were steep on Sally Place. Finding number 5 was rather a mission though, as it was like a rabbit warren of houses dotted on the hill, and most of them were very obviously empty.



Try and I might I could not find 5. It was there somewhere but well hidden. So time to ask again. Another very obliging chap came to the door, and when he found out what I was looking for, he went back inside and returned with an aerial map in hand of his home and surrounding houses.

We found number 5 on the map, the one with the white roof. So, back halfway down the hill, I turned off onto another driveway that weaved back up the hill heading for 5.

  • Again, I was thwarted as the couple I could see on the balcony were definitely not my friends.
  • Again, a keen stranger was eager to help solve this mystery. But alas, we were stumped.

No problem. I figured I’d head back to the church restaurant and wait it out. But there was no need as just as I was back on the flat ground my phone rang and it was my friend.

She was genuinely so sorry; she had forgotten to add the actual street name. You see, the house was named Scenic Place, and the street was Francis Drive.

It was well worth the time and effort to get there. Yes, it was a steep driveway, but the view from the balcony was spectacular and the company of my friends magical. And as a plus, I’d met some lovely people along the way. Such is life being a travel adventure!

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My Hobby, Comedy Improv

My Hobby, Comedy Improv

Perhaps you don’t know this about me, but my favourite hobby is comedy Improv.

And if you’re not exactly sure what that is, think “Whose Line Is It Anyway?”, the classic T.V. series that you can still find on YouTube. This comedy improv programme was started in England with comedians like John Sessions, Stephen Fry, Josie Lawrence and Paul Merton. Later on, Ryan Stiles and Colin Mochrie joined the team, and they went on to the American version, which is the one most people remember.

Enough of the history. Improv is alive and well, even here in Papamoa! So for those of you who don’t know, I’m part of the Honest Liars troupe who meet every Monday for wonderfully constructed chaos of wit and laughter. Once a month (first Sunday, to be exact), we do a show at the Jam Factory, Historic Village in Tauranga.

Beginning last Wednesday and going through to Sunday, there was a Comedy Improv Festival held in Auckland, which, naturally, we trundled up to the big smoke to be part of.

Workshops and shows were the order of the day. To say that I got saturated with information, learnings and tools would certainly not be an exaggeration. But we also got to perform an hour-long show which was the scariest part for me.

Not only did I have five family members in the audience (thanks for the support), but we were also playing on an unfamiliar stage, and to our peers, many of whom have years of experience.

But NO PRESSURE.

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This is why I love improv. I never have to learn lines and so have to remember them, all I need to do is be present in telling a story, and surprisingly enough, the ‘funny’ just seems to happen.

The whole festival was held at the Covert Theatre in Ponsonby. A brilliant suburb with quirky eateries (and people), fun shops and lovely old homes. There wasn’t a lot of time between workshops to simply ‘hang out’, but I did manage to stroll the streets and take in the vibe.

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My hobby is alive and well. I learned, I laughed, and I lived in the moment, absorbing the beautiful energy that surrounded me from both my improv friends and the new improvers I met.

Life is grand.

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The Fortune Teller

The Fortune Teller

Have you ever been to a tarot card reader or any one of the many psychic modalities?

What is the allure of fortune-tellers? And why do we need to look into the future?

As far as I’m concerned, the jury is still out as to whether they really can predict what is going to happen in my world.

Over the years, I have been to many different psychics, from card readers, astrologers and numerologists to clairvoyants and palm readers. All have been able to tell me my traits, personality etc. and be pretty on par with that.

But for telling the future… pretty darn abysmal.

Yes, I know, free will means that I can block anything they’ve told me from happening. But, hey, if it’s good, then why would I??? Wouldn’t I be more likely to be looking forward to the predicted outcome?

There have only been two occasions when what the psychic told me has come to fruition. And of those two, only one was very much outside the square and not something I was expecting at all. Which brings me to wonder … was it a lucky guess? Or was she an excellent clairvoyant?

As for all the other things that should have happened, well, I’m still waiting. There’s a man from Portugal with the large yacht yet to sail into my life – geez, it’s been over 20 years! And what about all the public talks around the world I was to give??? Mind you; perhaps the cards couldn’t foresee the virus putting a dampener on any travelling.

The funny part is when I see a card reader, I’m still tempted to sit down opposite just out of curiosity. It’s a bit like being tempted to take a lotto ticket. But I don’t spend on the lottery because of the enormous odds, so I probably won’t be looking into the crystal ball either for the same reason.

P.S. And just so you know – the two clairvoyants that seemed to get it right… I jolly well can’t remember who they were – now, isn’t that just a rotten plot twist!!!!!

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A Girls’ Weekend

A Girls’ Weekend

A girls’ weekend has to be the best bonding time ever created. 

You probably already know that I’m in an Improv group (which I’ll tell you more about on another day). This troupe is an almost equal mix of both men and women and one that I feel genuinely grateful for having the comradery of exceptional people.

 

It shouldn’t come as any great surprise then that the women of the group decided to have a weekend away to have some quality time away from the comedy. Let me point out here that these women range in age from late 30s through to me, who is the oldest at 68. There are more than 10 years between myself and the next one down. Now, I’m no sociologist, but I believe that these women keep me young, keep me being open to new adventures, and certainly keep me looking forward rather than back.

 

The first sojourn was in 2020, if my memory serves me correctly, just before lockdown. Not everyone was in attendance, and those absent were missed, but the gals who did go enjoyed a rain-filled, odd house weekend. Due to the weather, the only activities involved hot pools and massage. Well, it was Rotorua (also known as Rotovegas for my international readers), after all. Aren’t hot pools mandatory?

 

The latest weekend, held recently, was definitely a step-up. It was again in Rotorua simply because there’s always lots to do there, and it’s very close. The bonus was that the entire female Honest Liars Improv contingent were there.

 

It began with Frenzied Friday, relaxed into a Slower Saturday and ended with Stimulating Sunday. Well, these were the chapter headings I thought summed up the weekend!

 

The AirB&B home was primo. Not only was it a beautiful house, but it also offered a big enough spa pool and a fire pit on the deck which overlooked a calm vista of rolling hills.

 

As I said – it was a Frenzied Friday. That’s because everyone arrives, cars unloaded, snacks laid out and drinks started. With seven women, you can imagine how many delicious snacks there were, so much so that dinner type food was never even given a thought.

 

It was serious work firing up the fire pit, especially not finding the fire starters until well after the flames leapt into life the old fashioned way.

 

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By the time the deck was smoked out, it soon became obvious the best thing to do was to get into the hot tub. 

As more slipped into the warm bubbling water to escape the smoke, the deep talking really began. Naturally, I’m going to add here that the famous line by Colson Whitehead from the movie The Noble Hustle.

“What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas”

So, no, you’re not going to get any of the juicy details. Needless to say, it wasn’t just in the pool; there were funny, lively, detailed conversations going on throughout the evening and subsequent days.

 

Saturday saw a much quieter day, although it was full, beginning with a bit of mini-golf with bunnies. That’s right. Flemish Rabbits hopped around the course to the enjoyment of all. The bunny golf was followed by a delicious lunch at the Atticus Finch restaurant which catered for everyone, including the two vegans!

 

atticus finch restaurant

 

A gentle walk by the lake, then it was off for the mandatory massage. Everyone was too tired to go out clubbing or any other thing that involved strenuous activity, and so it was back to the house, and finally, Friday’s meal was laid out on the counter for all to partake.

 

lake rotorua

 

No better way to end the evening than to sit around and watch a girly movie. And the one of choice could have been made just for us. ‘Wine Country’, a story about a group of friends who have a weekend away to celebrate a birthday. Set in Napa Valley, the perfectly planned weekend turns into a wine-soaked event that changes the women forever. Although we were perhaps not quite as rambunctious, and we certainly didn’t have a ‘Devon’ who came with their house, we all laughed at some of the similarities we saw.

 

And so onto Sunday. Everyone had clear heads by then, and a walk through the Redwoods after breakfast invigorated us all. We could each return to our ‘normal’ lives refreshed, revitalised and revelling in the beautiful bonding that had only deepened our friendship.

 

Oh, I must mentioned that not only was the house beautiful, the weather was stunning also. A far cry from the previous girls’ weekend. But where both did hit the mark was with the fun we had. Do you have time out with your tribe? Please let me know in the comments.

 

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