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What Does A CEO Get Up To?

Even at the top of the pile a CEO needs to be on his game – in more ways than you would think.

When I’m at the gym, don’t laugh; yes, I go to the gym, but that’s a story for another day.

Getting back to what I was going to tell you. When I’m at the gym, I use the time wisely and listen to podcasts. I have several to choose from, and depending on the mood of the morning, I will pick one that I know will hold my interest long enough to make the time working out go faster.

The pods vary from sciencey style, animal activism, philosophy to comedy, wit and satire. Obviously, I have my favourites, and one is Malcolm Gladwell’s Revisionist History, and it was this that I was listening to that inspired me to write this post.

The episode title ‘A Good Walk Spoiled’ covers the elite sport of GOLF. I say ‘elite’ as one does need to have enough pennies in the bank to pay the membership, especially to the high-rolling courses around the USA.

It was a very captivating episode, and if you can get to listen to it, I suggest you do. But the one part that intrigued me the most was the amount of time that CEOs spend playing golf.

Surprisingly enough, if you know where to look, you can get the stats of different golfers’ scores. It appears they have high egos as they take great delight in posting their scorecards online. From this, statisticians have deduced that some CEOs can play 148 rounds of golf a year, which means, on average, they are out on the course one in every three days! (Some play even more).

Guess what? This puts golf into the addiction category. That’s right, this game, like many others, can and does become an addiction.

But another cool stat that showed up was the number of CEOs that get fired. The more golf they played, the more likely they were of getting the boot.

This doesn’t really surprise me because if the boss is out on the golf course, s/he is not at his/her desk running the show.

Mmmmm – this begs the question. How much golf did President Trump play when he was in office? Not at his desk running a country. I guess that’s why the majority of Americans yelled, “Your fired!”.

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WE CAN RECYCLE ANYTHING!

What do you do with those umbrellas?

There is always something that I come across every day, that makes me laugh. And seeing cocktail umbrellas strung up along a pergola certainly tickled my funny bone.

I mean, talk about recycling! And how many cocktails did the owners have to have to get to create this remarkable string of fun?

As I continued my walk, more questions came to mind about these cute brollies.

Did they keep replacing them as the paper got ruined in the sun/rain?
How were they strung?
Maybe I could do the same? – oh wait, I don’t drink cocktails!
Where do you get them from?

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Good thing I’d taken a photo of these little cuties because as I was telling my friend, I was able to pull up the pic and show her.

Imagine the enormous deflation I felt when she told me that they were little lights and one could buy them easily. However, search as I did, I only found one place that sold them, and that was on a party site, in the USA, under ‘Tropical & Luau’.

Guess I’ll just have to start having cocktails and save the wee parasols for stringing. Of course, I’ll have to make sure there is an excellent story to tell with each one!

Fee Writes

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A Night With Leo

I honestly can’t call myself a doggy person – but a night with Leo changed all that.

During my illustrious career as a house-sitter, my number one rule was “no dogs”. Now, admittedly, it did reduce the house pool somewhat, but I remained firm. That is until I met Leo.

I have long retired from being a permanent house-sitter deciding that I do prefer to have an anchor, somewhere to call ‘home’. Besides, I needed to get my stuff out of storage before it all became worthless junk, or the heirlooms got forgotten.

So I hung up my shingle and settled into my existing abode and only agreed to look after two cats for a couple who had become friends.

Then I met Leo. Leonardo di Corgio to be precise. Yes, a corgi who snuck into my life and tugged my heartstrings. This dog seemed to have the innate ability to ferret out my ‘don’t do dogs’ opinion, hone into my psyche and become an animal I enjoy being around. I have no idea how he did it. (I think I have a clue now as to why the Queen loves this breed.)

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The day arrived for me to dog-sit. And there he was, at the door waiting for me. He knows my car and is always at the door when I arrive unless he’s asleep!

He greeted me with exuberant excitement, racing around before rushing off to get his mauled blanket and deposit it at my feet.

Let me explain something about Leo. He loves to play fetch. He will bring you anything he can find and deposit it at your feet or on your lap in the slim hope you will throw it. These ‘fetch’ gifts can range from his blanket (as mentioned) to an empty toilet roll, a sock to a piece of bark from the garden. And he doesn’t tire of it. Seven socks ended up on the bench over the time I was there. And, I have no idea where he was getting them from!

So once I’d got settled in and made a coffee I told him we’d play ball. You’d think I’d given him the world as I went for the ball and throwing device.

He ran up and down the side path, skidding into the garden when necessary or banging into walls simply to retrieve the ball and bring it back.

Ears erect, eyes fixed, and brain focused. Nothing was more important than where that ball went.

Finally, I’d had enough. I’m quite sure Leo would have kept going until his little feet bled. But I had finished my coffee, my arm was getting sore, so I called “last one, Leo” and it was as if he knew because when he brought the ball back and dropped it at my feet, he went straight to his water bowl.

Naturally, there were a few more ball games during the day, and that night he jumped up on the bed with me and snuggled in.

I have looked after Leo again for a couple of nights and will be putting my hand up next time ‘mum and dad’ go away.

Nice to have a man in my life.

Fee Writes

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What Is To Come?

We can have a future if we put our minds to it. But it won’t be the politicians who make it happen.

At the first world food summit In 1974, Henry Kissinger famously said:

“We will end hunger within a decade.”

His statement seems pathetic now as we are close to 2 billion people facing hunger. And because of the impact from the COVID pandemic, we’re about to enter another hunger endemic due to the global recession and climate impact.

Doesn’t this say that on every level our economic system does not work? Decades of neoliberalism has taken us to the brink of disaster. It’s time to make changes – dramatic ones.

One thing that Jacinda Adern (N.Z. Prime Minister) got right is that she’s removed G.D.P. growth as an objective. We were the first to do this and quickly after both Scotland and Iceland followed suit. Costa Rica and Cuba are another two other countries primarily based around human well-being, social justice and solidarity. These are the areas that should be at the heart of any government.

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Where the hope comes from is the grass-roots movements. Before COVID, we saw many massive protests going on around the world where people told their governments that they are over the selfish way, the failing economic systems and the inequalities. They want more done. Even last year, we saw many take to the streets crying out over the disparities in their lives. It is this swell of humans taking to the streets that make change happen. We’ve seen this in the U.S.A. with the new administration. It has listened to at least some of what the people want. The fact that they are going to invest two trillion in the environment is a great start. It will be interesting to see how much more will be achieved in the next four years.

We need to be able to describe the world we want, and in doing so, we will build the pressure and hold the feet of those in power in the fire, so they give us a different kind of community that works.

There is hope as more and more people worldwide are demanding a more inclusive system, a fairer justice and a cleaner world. And I see many within these movements as the movers and shakers who can lead us to a brighter future.

Fee Writes

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The Dating Scene

What happens when you have three girlfriends, a bottle or two of wine and a lockdown? Mayhem!

The three women in question all have husbands. Wait, let me amend that. Two of them have a man in their life, and one is single. So what should the single one do? Why go on the dating scene.

It’s lockdown in New Zealand and the message going out is to stay in your ‘bubble’. The three women decide that they’ll make a unique bubble once a week and get together for wine and chatter under the guise of giving the single lass company at least for a few hours.

social time — (not the 3 I’m talking about)

The conversation soon turned to the single status of the third woman who, by the way, is the oldest and, if you haven’t guessed yet, was me.

Tinder was the first suggestion, quickly snubbed as being for the young folk and as it’s lockdown wouldn’t be able to meet up anyway! Next on the cards was online dating. So the heads got together and a profile, with image, was loaded up.

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I’ve been down this road before. You see it’s been many (like MANY) years since I’ve been in a relationship, so the dating sites have had a fair go to little or no success.

Being a bit of a picky bitch probably doesn’t help! Let alone the fact that I’m vegan. This has put off many a chap, but as my friends say, “their loss”. So this time round I agreed that the ‘vegan’ part, although not hidden, wasn’t to be a barrier.

Now we come to the present day and it’s way past lockdown – that was “so last year”, but with the girls telling me to ‘smile’ ‘wink’ and ‘message’ every male that was put in front of me (not that I did), it was quite the eye-opening experience.

The men came and went. They were all genuine people, but not one of them rocked my boat. Most were looking for a woman to look after them, which probably goes without saying for men my age. So where is the independent chap, the outgoing, generous, try anything type of guy who has some fashion sense and can hold a decent conversation? He has eluded me.

It’s funny, but I always thought it was women who only wanted to talk about themselves. How wrong am I? Perhaps it’s nerves on their part? Of all the men I met, only a couple found out I had three children and where they lived… let alone my grandchildren. And only one discovered that I do Improv comedy! And yet I heard all about their families and their interests. Maybe I should start up a school on ‘how to date for the older person’.

Needless to say – I’m still single, it’s now 2021, and I have deleted all profiles off the dating sites. Mr Right will come along; he’s just not quite ready to introduce himself yet.

Author: Fee Writes

What Does A CEO Get Up To?

Even at the top of the pile a CEO needs to be on his game – in more ways than you would think.

WE CAN RECYCLE ANYTHING!

What do you do with those umbrellas?

A Night With Leo

I honestly can’t call myself a doggy person – but a night with Leo changed all that.

What Is To Come?

We can have a future if we put our minds to it. But it won’t be the politicians who make it happen.

The Dating Scene

What happens when you have three girlfriends, a bottle or two of wine and a lockdown? Mayhem!

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